| Location | Grimsby |
| Age | 2 days |
| Cause of Death | Premature Birth |
| Date of Birth | 19/04/2009 |
| Date of Death | 21/04/2009 |
| Visitors | 2,283 since 18/07/2009 |
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THIS IS FOR OUR BEAUTIFUL SON WHO FOUGHT TO THE END
HE WAS SO BEAUTIFUL AND EVERY 1 THAT MET HIM LOVED HIM
HE WOULD HAVE BEEN A CHARMER AND WE MISS HIM SO MUCH
ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS AND MISSED FOREVER
LOVE MUMMY AND DADDY
THE DAY WE FOUND OUT WE WAS HAVING ANOTHER BABY WE WAS SHOCKED HAS IT WAS NOT PLANNED BUT WE WERE SO HAPPY AT THE SAME TIME. MY PREGNANCY FROM THE BEGINNING HAD PROBLEMS I WAS LOOSING A LOT OF BLOOD AND BECAME ILL AND LOW IN IRON. WE HAD TO GO INTO HOSPITAL SEVERAL TIMES AND WAS HAVING WEEKLEY SCANS, ALL SEEMED WELL YOU WAS GROWING JUST LIKE ANY BABY . THE BLEEDING SETTLED AND ALL SEEMED WELL THEN MY MIDWIFE CAME TO MY WORK TO SAY MY BLOOD TEST THAT ID HAD AT 16 WK SHOWED SIGNS OF ABNORMALITIES SO I WAS SENT FOR AN EMERGANCY SCAN. AT GRIMSBY HOSPITAL THIS SHOWED THERE WAS NO SIGNS OF ABNORMALITIES BUT IT DID SHOW THAT I HAD LOW AMNIOTIC FLUID MY WTERS HAD GONE BY THIS TIME I WAS 17WEEKS. THEY SENT ME TO SHEFFIELD HOSPITAL THE NEXT DAY TO HAVE A MORE DETAILED SCAN WHICH CONFIRMED WHAT WAS SAID IN GRIMSBY . WE WAS ADVISED TO TERMINATE BUT WE COULDNT DO THAT AS THE SCANS SHOWED YOU WAS STILL GROWING FINE AND IN LINE WITH THE WEEKS THAT I WAS. SO WE WENT HOME AND I HAD WEEKLEY SCANS. I KEPT TELLING MY COSULTANT THAT I HAD PAIN IN MY LOWER BELLY HE JUST KEPT SAYING ITS THE BABY SETTLING IN THE UTREUS. BY THIS TIME I WAS 22 WEEKS . THE CONSULTANT STATED I NEEDED TO KEEP AN EYE ON MY TEMP AS I WAS PRONE TO INFECTION BUT AT THE SAME TIME HE DIDNT SEEM TO WANT TO DO ANYTHING FOR ME UNTIL I REACHED 24 WEEKS AS THE BABY IS NOT CLASSED AS VIABLE TILL THEN . I HAD TO FIGHT TO SAY I WANTED STEROID INJECTIONS TO STRENGTHEN BABYS LUNGS AT 24 WKS AND NOT THE 26WK HE WANTED TO GIVE THEM.I KEPT COMPLAINING OF PAIN IN MY LOWER BELLY NOTHING WAS DONE.THEN AT 24 WEEKS I FINALLY GOT THEM ON THE FRIDAY AND THEN ON THE SATURDAY. SUNDAY 19TH APRIL I WENT INTO LABOUR AND WAS SENT STRAIGHT TO SHEFFIELD HOSPITAL FROM GRIMSBY HOSPITAL. THERE THEY FOUND I HAD A BAD INFECTION AND INDUCED LABOUR AT 7.30 PM I GAVE BIRTH TO HARLEY AND THE DOCTORS STABELISED HIM AND TOOK HIM TO SCBU FINALLY AT MIDNIGHT WE WERE ALLOWED TO SEE HARLEY . HE WAS SO BEAUTIFUL AND DOING SO WELL THEN 24 HOURS LATER WE WERE TOLD THAT HARLEY WAS ILL DUE TO AN INFECTION THAT HE HAD GOT FROM ME DURING LABOUR THE INFECTION THAT THEY SAY I MUST OF HAD FOR SOME WEEKS AS ITHE ANTIBIOTICS GIVEN BEFOR LABOUR DID NOT WORK. WE GOT HARLEY CHRISTEND AT 9 AM AND RANG FAMILY TO COME AND SEE HIM . THROUGHTOUT THE DAY HARLEY SEEMED TO PICK UP AND WE THOUGHT ALL WAS GOING TO BE WELL . ALL THAT DAY AFTER LETTING ME GO DOWN TO CHRISTEN HARLEY THEY WOULD NOT LET ME OFF THE WARD TO SEE HIM AS THEY SAID I WAS TOO ILL AND MY BLOOD PRESSURE WAS FAR TOO LOW THAT WAS VERY HARD FOR ME AS MY FAMILY HAD COME TO SEE HARLEY AND JUST MY HUSBAND COULD GO WITH THEM . FINALLY AFTER A LOT OF DRIPS AT 4PM I COULD GO SEE MY SON AGAIN. LATER THAT NIGHT THE CHILD CONSULTANT CAME TO SEE US AND SAID HARLEY IS VERY POORLEY AND THEY WANTED US TO TURN OFF THE MACHINES . WE WENT DOWN TO SEE HIM AND THEY TOOK HIM OUT IS INCUBATOR SO HIS DADDY COULD HOLD HIM FOR THE FIRST TIME IT WAS THEN THEY ASKED IF THEY COULD UNHOOK ALL HIS TUBES I LOOKED UP AT THE SCREENS AND NOTICED THAT HARLEYS OXYGEN LEVELS HAD GONE UP I TOOK THIS AS A SIGN THAT HARLEY WAS SAYING NO MUMMY AND DADDY IM GOING TO MAKE IT SO I DEMANDED THEY PUT HARLEY BACK AND REDO HIS BLOOD GASES. THEY PROCEEDED TO DO SO WE SIAD WE WOULD COME BACK IN 15 MINS TO CHECK . WE WENT FOR SOME TEA 11PM AS WE HAD NOT EATEN OR SLEPT SINCE THE DAY BEFOR . WHEN WE WERE ABOUT TO GO BACK AND SEE HARLEY THE CONSULTANT CAME RUNNING IN AND SAID WEVE GOT TEN MINUTES HARLEY WAS NOT GOING TO MAKE IT . WE RAN DOWNSTAIRS TO THE LIFTS AND GOT TO HARLEY. I WAS SCREAMING AT THEM TO GET THE TUBES OFF HARLEY SO WE COULD HOLD HIM IN OUR ARMS . THEY TOOK US THE QUIET ROOM AND IT WAS THERE THAT HARLEY PASSED AWAY IN MY ARMS ON 21ST APRIL AT 1.30 AM JUST 1 DAY AND 6 HOURS OLD . THEY WERE VERY GOOD WITH US THEY TOOK PICTURES AND MADE LITTLE HAND AND FOOTPRINTS I FINALLY HAD TO LET HIM GO THEY ASKED IF WE WANTED HARLEY IN OUR ROOM THE NIGHT I WAS IN SHOCK I COULDNT DO THAT. I WENT TO SEE HARLEY AGAIN AT 5 AM AND WHEN I GOT BACK TO THE WARD I TOLD THEM I WANTED TO TAKE MY SON HOME TO GRIMSBY. THEY WERE NOT SURE THEY COULD LET ME GO AS THEY SAID I WAS TOO ILL. SO I HAD TO RING MY MUM TO SORT OUT A FUNERAL DIRECTOR AND GET HARLEY BACK HOME. LATER THAT DAY THEY SAID THEY WOULD LET ME HOME WITH HARLEY BUT FIRST WE HAD TO GO REGISTER HIS BIRTH AND DEATH AT THE SAME TIME TIME SO WE HAD TO TRVEL BY TAXI INTO SHEFFIELD TOWN WE COULDNT DRIVE WE DIDNT HAVE A CLUE WHERE IT WAS. FINALLY AFTER WHAT SEEMED DAYS THEY LET US TAKE OUR SON HOME AT 2PM ON 21ST APRIL. WE TOOK HARLEY TO MY MUMS WHERE ALL THE FAMILY WERE WAITING AS MY MUM HAD TO ARRANGE FOR THE FUNERAL DIRECTORS TO GO THERE AS WE DID NOT KNOW IF I WAS ALLOWED HOME AT THE TIME WE HAD TO SORT IT. THAT WAS THE LAST TIME I HELD MY BEAUTIFUL SON AS THE NEXT DAY WED 22ND APRIL I WAS RUSHED TO HOSPITAL WITH SEPTIC SHOCK FROM SEPTACIMEIA I MUST OF HAD THAT INFECTION WEEKS AND I KNOW DEEP IN MY HEART THAT HARLEY WOULD HAVE LIVED HAD HE NOT CAUGHT THE INFECTION. I LATER HAD LONG TALKS WITH MY CONSUTANT AT GRIMSBY AND HE STATED THAT I WENT INTO EARLY LABOUR BECAUSE OF THE INFECTION AND I SAID I LOST MY CHILD AND MY CHILDREN NEARLY LOST THEIR MOTHER ALL BECAUSE OF HIS ATTITUDE THAT HE WOULDNT HELP UNTIL BABY WAS IN HIS WORDS VIABLE AT 24 WEEKS. IT HAS SINCE BEEN SAID THAT WHEN THEY HAD THERE MONTHLY REVIEW THAT IT WILL BE CONSIDERED THAT ALL MOTHERE THAT LOOSE THEIR WATERS EARLY WILL HAVE WEEKLY SWABS. TOO LATE FOR LITTLE HARLEY BUT IM GLAD OTHER MUMS WILL BE PROTECTED MORE. THEY SAY SOME THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON IM STILL TRING TO WORK THAT OUT , I KNOW WE WILL NEVER GET THE ANSWERS TO WHY BUT I KNOW THAT 1 DAY WE WILL BE WITH OUR SON IN HEAVEN AND WE HAVE THE LOVELY MEMORIES AND PHOTOS TO LOOK AT . IM GLAD I HAD THE STRENGTH TO BRING HARLEY HOME IN MY ARMS ITS THE BEST THING I DID AND LITTLE DID I KNOW THE LAST TIME I WOULD HOLD HIM DUE TO BEEN IN HOSPITAL . I WAS FINALLY ALLOWED HOME TO ATTEND HARLEYS FUNERAL WICH I HAD TO SORT OUT FROM MY HOSPITAL BED BUT IT WAS A LOVELY DAY AND A GREAT SEND OFF FOR OUR BEAUTIFUL LITTLE BOY. HARLEY YOU ARE IN MUMMY AND DADDY AMY DWAIN CHELSEA LATIA;S AND ALL YOUR FAMILYS HEARTS FOREVER . SWEET DREAMS LTTLE MAN WE LOVE YOU ALWAYS .
Heyy BabyBoy. How are you? Keeping Adam busy i bet running rings around him :). Sorry i didnt make it to your grave at christmas just had alot too do i'll make up for it though i promise. Missing you so much everyday Harley my beautiful baby cousin you really are one in a million its just such a shame the angels decided to take you from us so early. thought i should leave you a little message as i havent been on here for a while. Not long now until your birthday 3months, keep your eye out for all those balloons and messages hope you get chance to read all the message but im guessing you'll be too busy playing keeping everyone busy :). Hope your ok Harley everyone loves you and is missing you so much you will never be replaced always thinking of you. Sleep tight mister. See you again soon
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⋱♰⋰ Angel Day ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Your Angel Day in Heaven ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Many tears will fall for you ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ You touched so many loving hearts ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ There’s so many missing you ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ As you now live in paradise ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Its Heaven up above stay ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Close to all your loved ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ ones For it’s you they ⋱♰⋰
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⋱♰⋰ family and friends that you miss you ever day ⋱♰⋰
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⋱♰⋰ forgoten you take care love from me ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Sylvie mommy of Samantha Belanger ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ and Granddaughter of Albert and ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Marie-Jeanne Belanger take care ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ hugs and XXXX bye for now good ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ night ⋱♰⋰
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
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happy birthday little man xxxxxxxxx
happy birthday 2 today sweet litle man hope you caught hold of all your balloons harley there was lots for you to play with and to share out with all the other baby angels we love and miss you so much sweet little man all our love hugs and kisses mummy daddy amy dwain chelsea latia harvey xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
happy 2nd birthday
cant beleive its 2 years now time has gone so fast always in out hearts and thoughts have fun with the angels. our thoughts are with you today kerry mark and family xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
sweet little man
hello sweet little prince i cant believe its been nearly 2 years on 19th april since you filled our hearts with joy. we will be letting off some lovley balloons for you and the angells can catch them . look out for the special baloon from your little brother Harvey you both share the same birthday and that is special for both of you Harvey will grow up knowing how wonderful you was Harley and how special you are. we know he was a special gift from you and we see you in harvey everyday little monkey xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
sweet little man
mummy daddy amy dwain chelsea latia and harvey all miss you very much sweet little man it wont be long before your second birthday little prince we will all come to see you and harvey will always be told how special you was and that hes a special gift to us from you and he will be proud he has the same birthday as his big brother so i have 2 sweet little boys to take care of on 19th april dont worry little man we watch for your shining star and you watch for all your lovley messages flying high up to you on balloons each one with a kiss attached just for you .
love you my prince xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
our little man
we all love and miss you so much little man we wish you could be here with us and that we could hold you once again in our arms . Your baby brother harvey looks so much like you and i know he was a gift sent by you. i still cant belive that little harvey was born on your birthday a year apart .so lttle man you will soon be 2 yrs old and harvey will be 1 yr so we will be letting off balloons for you and lighting candles on harveys cake and when we have done hat we will all come and visit you and bring you some lovley gifts .just wish you was here my little prince but i know your around i can feel you and harvey always cuddles up to your teddy that you got when you was christened and he will love it when hes older to know that his birthday is on the same day as yours and that you are both my speciallittle boys .mummy daddy dwain amy chelsea harveyyour brothers and sisters all miss you so so much .sleeptight little man xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
thinking of you today
kerry mark and family thinking of you all today on harleys 1st birthday your emotions this week will be up in the air both loving and heartbreaking stay strong love you all so much xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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